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Radar Pedestal How One Can Stop Being A Nice Guy One of the worst nightmares for a guy when it comes to seducing and dating women is falling in the trap of being a "nice guy". Although you must al...
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How One Can Stop Being A Nice GuyOne of the worst nightmares for a guy when it comes to seducing and dating women is falling in the trap of being a "nice guy". Although you must always treat a woman with respect and dignity, it's absolutely vital you do not become another "nice guy" around women. So what exactly is a "nice guy"? Well, a nice guy is a regular guy, a good guy. To cut to the chase, nice guys don't have a clue about what they're doing. - They buy roses on every other date they get with a new girl. But more importantly, nice guys are nice because deep down, they feel insecure. And who wants to be dating an insecure guy? Okay so here's the big question: how do you get a girl to pay attention to you, when there are literally billions of other guys on the planet? Well, start by being unusual. Unusual in an enchanting way. Here's one of the best strategies: let her have a peak and shut the door. BAM! You get the idea. Picture Will Smith, in the "Hitch" movie. Now let's analyze that great little scene. You can see that Will Smith obviously knows what he's doing. He doesn't ask her phone number directly, he patiently waits for her to get interested. And just at the moment when he feels she's finally taken off her built-in radar, he leaves her. Let other guys do the talking, let other guys buy expensive gifts, let other guys sink their own ships by being too nice and too cheap with women. Don't do the same mistakes that thousands of guys do when seducing women. It's all about the attitude. Display the right attitude (stop being a nice guy) to build your way to more success with women, and smile when you see guys behaving like ass-kissers around women. Ass-kissers become friends. Confident guys (non-nice-guys) become daters. About the Author Want to find out about scary sharks and small sharks? Get tips from the Types Of Sharks website. |
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What to Avoid in a Motivational Speaking Career
Preaching what you don't practice
Motivational speakers usually talk about ways of overcoming adversity. They are generally considered life strategists, enlightened and knowledgeable about particular life topics. In this industry, a level of integrity needs to be maintained. If a speaker does not practice what he preaches, it shows the audience that he or she does not believe in their own teachings.
In a business sense, motivational speakers have products that can inspire and motivate people. Their products are solutions to the public's problems involving work, family, relationships and life in general. A motivational speakers' main products are their message and the principles they share. Doing what you teach shows that they believe in the message making you appear more credible and trustworthy. A simple example is if someone who speaks about staying healthy was caught smoking behind the conference building.
Talking too much about yourself
This is a very common mistake motivational speakers make particularly the ones who have had a lot of difficult experiences and overcome them. Though it is great to share your past encounters talking about them constantly will turn your audience off to your message. You may end up sounding pompous, arrogant, and self-righteous. If you have lots of personal experiences to share, do so sparingly.
Always inject historically relevant stories or anecdotes about someone else. This way, you are sending your message across instead of putting yourself up on a pedestal
Not setting yourself apart from the rest
As you may have already known, there are many motivational speakers in the market today. It will be difficult to market yourself with the more experienced speakers within the radar.
To solve this problem, you should build and develop a USP (Unique Selling Point) for yourself. Think about your buyers. Why should event and conference organizers hire you in the first place? Having a personal trademark or branding can greatly help you with the marketing aspect of your craft.
Not having a target market
Professional speaking is a BUSINESS. And any business should have a target market. It is essential for a motivational speaker to choose a niche. Understanding and recognizing the things you can offer to the public can help you determine your most feasible niche.
Once you have chosen a niche, build and improve a marketing plan and market heavily and aggressively for your niche. Try putting together a marketing package that will let the public know who you are.
About the Author
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